Thread #2 - Separating

[Bdog37]

Mine said the same thing...even went far enough to say it was better for the kids. Ugh.

Mine told me that she thought the kids seem happier now than they ever have and asked me if I agreed....really??

I suspect this is because OM is still in the picture and they are planning their happily ever after.

I keep being told that my W's new relationship with the OM2 is not going to last and she will still be unhappy. That someday she will finally realize that I wasn't the source of her unhappiness. However, this doesn't make me feel better because of the fact that she is ruining our M right now and doesn't realize that things can be better. Some people do move on and become better partners after an A, but not too many come back after D.