A stronger me for whatever the future holds

[KevinIn]

... we never sat down and talked about R&R's - funny as that's something I emphasize doing in my job with my staff.

One thing I forgot on the controlling side is that I was definitely guilty of snooping and wanting to know what she was up to, calling/texting more than usual - but this really only came out in the last 2 years when I started getting suspicious about the A.

What do you mean by R&Rs?

The snooping didn't start for me until 1.5 months after she told me about the A, and when she wanted a 'break.' It lasted about 3 weeks. I regret it now. Thankfully i stopped snooping.