I'm going through a different issue - I really want someone to turn to. It's not healthy and i'm resisting the temptation, but i really want to find someone now.
While this is a great, great thing...you must remember that there are different levels to this you need to think about.
If you can separate what you are going through from your current mindset, you'll find that going out is very, very beneficial to one's soul and ego. I speak from experience. Harley Quinn withstanding, I've gone out with quite a few - ranging from simple coffee dates to really going out, and then some.
The thing is, you must be careful of rebound attachment...which can be a not so good thing. You don't want your heart broken again.
But, go out. Have fun. Go on a date. Have some sexy time. Whatever. It's good for you. Just don't talk about your situation.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
