I wish I had some words of wisdom or good advice, but I don't. Currently, my anger is waning, but I still feel so violated that I don't want anything to do with my XW. I'm hoping that I don't have to suffer through what you're going through; I've had enough suffering.
I have found that staying busy really helps me, but I suspect that sometimes you've just got to feel the pain. I don't know. I hope you're able to move on relatively quickly.
