A friend of mine just told me that my W changed her name on her FB and removed my last name. She kept all her pics of us on there, but changed her name. I also don't think I'll ever get rid of the stuff I have from her. After my W told me of her A she was texting me constantly telling me how much she loved me, how nice it was to hold me and make love to me, etc, etc. I just want to forward those to her and ask her where the h*** did that woman go??
Mine blocked me, my family, and all of our mutual friends...even mutual friends who were hers to start with but I have gotten close to. Seems that she doesn't want to see things. haha. Seems that she was texting you that stuff to keep you on as plan b?
Quote:
She had a bad upbringing as, but I agree with KevinIn...it probably wouldn't have mattered and the outcome would most likely be the same.
The scope and depth of my ex's abuse is on the insane level. I will discuss it, but not on here. I mean bad. Honestly, I'm not surprised that there have been at least two suicide attempts that I became aware of only after the BD. Sure, I am aware of her being an adult and making decisions and knowing right from wrong - but as our MC/my IC said, her past plays such a strong role in her present that no matter what would have been done, this marriage wouldn't have made it. However, I'm confident that it would have stood more than a fighting chance had she a better childhood.
Quote:
Sorry you are having a bad one going down memory lane Jeep. Picturing your wedding day and all. Unfortunately, I'm sure there are going to be more days like today so just hang in there. Just [censored] a** that they don't miss that life anymore!
Thank you, my friend. It's funny how something will make a memory pop. I agree, there probably will be many more days like this. Just have to compartmentalize them.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
