my wife can't decide (II)

[WillDo]

I also think she feels hurt when I mention it is an affair. She had asked me not to mention it to the consellor. I listened and didn't. well I did but not the details. She said whe she was going to the other room that yeah go on thinking you are betrayed. The next morning when she talked about D and when I said I was worried about the constant messaging and I didn't see anything. She said she met probably before xmas. So in a sense she said something. Is this the guilt or a way of justifing her bad behaviour. I thought when she had left her prevoius job where she worked with him things would be over. Those emails I found. Flirtish onens when OM sends underwear pics and asks favs.She deleted his messages but didn't delete the sent folder. I don't want to see the sexting :-( Hey all don't do it. please don't do. I had seen similar bedore. Nothing new. Doesn't help. That is one thing I learned.

But is she feeling guilty. If so why is she sending pics woth OM on his birthday to her mother! Trying to be clean!