To answer some of those questions ^^, please allow me to offer you a different way of looking at your interactions with H.
FightOn looks at the moon and sees it's white.
Mr.FightOn looks at the moon and sees it's green.
Does that mean that both of your perspectives are wrong? You can argue with H until you're blue in the face that the moon is white. H's view is that the moon is green and he's standing by it.
I could show you that the actual color of the moon is purple.
In your haze of being "right", you both are digging in and staking your own individual positions. Hence the on-going stalemate.
What happens if you step off the box and letting go of "being" right about certain things. It is not you who must be right all the time. Things are fluid and things do change over the course of the time.
This is where it is super, duper essential that you dig deep for patience with the MLCer for the fog is especially heavy at this stage. Good Lord! I ought to know...my fog was 5-years long.
Let me put this back to you:
Why are you standing? Dig deep...the answer is buried inside you. Become your own best friend and you'll discover the answers in YOU.
