Sotto - you are right - I am hoping that he will see things the way that I see them. Philosophically, I know it is wrong to want that. On the other hand, I can't help but wonder, if I am wrong about wanting him to see it my way, does it mean my view is wrong. And if my view is wrong, then why am I standing? If my view is wrong and his is right, then we should get a divorce. Am I missing something?