MLC? Maybe you can tell me...

[SBJ]

I dont think any of them really talked to him about his choices

I asked one mutual guy friend from a bible group we were part of to talk to him and he did
but came back saying H said he was just not happy in the M

Plus, because they spin things and rewrite the marriage history, their friends and close family don't get the "real" story. then if they disagree with the MLC'er then they will be shut down and shut out.

you will know more as time passes and you see his NEW behavior which way he goes

I know in my W's case, she is great at masking everything. I read an interesting article this morning that summed up how we keep our front yards manicured nice and neat, but some back yards are amazingly messy. It compared prodigal spouses to that saying that they place so much effort into making sure their lives look good up front, but the spiritual and emotional "back yards", the place where God looks, is lacking.

We need clean up our own back yard and work on improving ourselves so that our prodigal/MLC/wayward spouse might notice...if they do not, then I am certain that we will be better for it down the line.