I brought up going to a counselor as a first step and she said she just didn't know if she had the motivation and needed to work on her own issues right now with her IC. She basically said she now has a whole ton of new issues because of the damage she's done to herself by letting OM use and manipulate her.
I think this says it all. She isnt ready to be in a relationship with you again. So let her go and do what she needs to do to heal.
^This. She is on her own road. One that unfortunately only has room for her. She needs to travel it herself. You, my friend, have your own road that needs tending. Own it.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
