MLC? Maybe you can tell me...

[peacetoday]

its true
No one wants to get involved
I remember thinking the same thing
My XH had good friends and a support group of guys

I dont think any of them really talked to him about his choices

I asked one mutual guy friend from a bible group we were part of to talk to him and he did
but came back saying H said he was just not happy in the M

MLC is not something someone can be talked into or out of
Its like a crises(mental illness)
Some say it is an accumulation of childhood trauma unresolved
so unless the MLCer seeks help with his childhood issues, they won't recover
Few seek help
Few will come out better than when they went in the tunnel because they spend most of their crises running and instead of resolving and growing they get sicker
You can only go up or down and many MLCer will go down
you will know more as time passes and you see his NEW behavior which way he goes
But the focus is on you and your change and growth
To use this time to Heal you
To figure out what you could do better in your life
A self evaluation and to become a reliable source for our kids
A better parent and the stable parent
our kids needs that to flourish