As alayways, thanks for the input Sandi. I've started a New Thread continued here:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2733022#Post2733022

M-32 W-32 (both military)
T-8 M-6
PA Oct/Nov 16 (happened twice)
Discovered PA 11/30/16
S 12/1/16
MC 12/1/16 - 1/18/17
BD 1/18/17
A continues? 1/24/17 texts resume with W & OM
W Filed 3/8/17
W Deploys 7/17