Yes, this acct is the only one we share and it will be dissolved after our house sells. Everything else including credit cards are in our individual names. I work in finance and I have always handled all the money and bills, so that was high on my priority list to protect the kids and I in case he goes further down the tunnel. For the most part, everything is as simplified as it can get, I suppose...

My MIL loves us both and wants to sit on both sides of the fence. Unfortunately I can't have someone in my life who is financially supporting my kids being taken from their home and their mother 50% of their lives, you know? I know the MLC'r doesn't respond to logic, but there is a really selfish part of me that is so angry and disappointed that though every single person in our families and all of our coworkers and friends think he is acting like a fool, no one will call him out on it. Everyone tells me how awful it is what he's doing, but I wonder why no one tells him he's behaving awfully?

Me : 42
Him : 43
M : 18, T : 19
D13, D11
4/16 1st BD (ILYB)
11/16 H wants s, moves out of br
1/17 H rents house & moves out
2/17 OW (he denies PA but EA last winter)
5/17 I filed for D 7/17 D Final