Before I deployed in April 2016, my wife had caught me texting another female. The reason I was texting her was because I was lonely and my wife was very distant from me because she was in school and hanging out with her friends. It was almost like we were roommates. I admitted my faults and asked for forgiveness and it seemed that everything was OK before I left to weeks later on the nine month deployment.
So what was the resolution of this? How did you heal as a relationship?
We seemed to work past it, atleast I thought. We had sex numerous times prior to my deployment. She seemed very sad once I left for deployment. My kids told me she had cryed for days when I left. The first few months we seemed good, would talk and FaceTime until she started hanging around her guy friends. That's when things took a turn for the worst. Then all of a sudden I became the enemy
