Wow Gordie, that is a terrific response! Polite and articulate yet the point is crystal clear.

I know H's parents are starting to come to the same conclusion that I am and his father is very upset with him, but yes - blood is definitely thicker than water. Even after 20 years.

Sotto - I don't know that he was definitely with her. I think it's fairly safe to assume but I have no proof and he will deny it until his dying breath for whatever reason.

Me : 42
Him : 43
M : 18, T : 19
D13, D11
4/16 1st BD (ILYB)
11/16 H wants s, moves out of br
1/17 H rents house & moves out
2/17 OW (he denies PA but EA last winter)
5/17 I filed for D 7/17 D Final