Thank you. I never thought about it that way. A year ago yes she made me move to the other room. This year during the argument she just left.
I don't know what nudged me but I check her emails today. Found similar emails from OM that I was aware of. I took pictures are archived safely. An OM who has had 2 divorces. But I did focus on OM. I don't know why. Today I kept on thinking even the past year she didn't cut contact. I had enough clues. No confrontation of course. I am following the MLC chapter.
She has more contact with me but runs to her room as soon as the kids are asleep.
I am trying to limit the time I am on this forum. Though I get curious. Otherwise my mind will be full of it.
I did also notice she looked for 2 bed apartments. Well I don't know. I am doing 180. Not following the instinct. We had a date on 9th of March from the past. I wonder what will happen.
Me: 43, W: 43 M: 16, T: 18 D - 7, D - 7 ILUB: 26 August 2014 Still living together