A stronger me for whatever the future holds

[PacLove]

It's now been a little over 2 months now since our R talk over the holidays, and while I have noticed a change in behavior in W I still see a lot of confusion and lack of commitment to really work on the R. We are clearing in the "friend" zone but at the same time have discussion around the future as well as the changes we both need to make in order for "us" to work.

That being said, I'm still question whether she's being 100% honest with me. I didn't go looking for it but came across some info that makes me wonder if she was with OM this past weekend. I don't have concrete proof but there was enough of a behavior shift and some questionable activity that reminds me of days not so long ago.

I was debating all weekend whether to confront her with it or not - but have decided against it. The discovery was painful, and I didn't go looking for it - which is why I'm tempted to let her know so I don't have to trip on that type of info again. But at the same time don't want to hinder some of the progress we are making.