Thanks all. I'm going to leave them where they are and let her decide. I think it would be seen as manipulative if I put them up while she's away.
I'm now moving on to planning my Friday night in the city!
M46 W48 M11 T14 S11 D8 BD: 2016/05/27 In-home separation: 2016/11/23 Nesting: 2017/06/11 W moves out: 2018/01/07 W goes public with OM: 2018/07/12 I ask for a divorce: 2018/12/14