Same Sitch. New Approach. Motivated. Feeling Good.

[Chris73]

*with not "will"

[Gordie]

Thanks WillDo. I do know who she's will. And at this point I don't think there's an OM in the picture. It's more of a Girls Gone Wild thing. She's down in Tampa, in a hotel by the beach, with a girlfriend who is going through a divorce, and it's spring break. So I think it's more about partying like a 25 year old single woman. It really [censored] when I dwell on it.

Meanwhile, like I predicted, she's already sent me 2 pictures of the view from her room...

W went on one of these trips with her new friends. Girls gone wild weekend? What does that mean to you? Drinking, drugs, random hookups?

[Chris73]

No drugs. But probably everything else. Maybe I'm not giving my W enough credit, but at this point the trust level is zero, so I assume the worst.

[KevinIn]

Meanwhile, like I predicted, she's already sent me 2 pictures of the view from her room...

I'm not whats worse - your wife sending pics or my wife being completely dark (i.e. zero contact with me other than about the kids).

[Chris73]

What would YOU do...?

W took down ALL the photos from the fireplace mantle at xmas time to put up xmas decorations. 2 of these photos are wedding pictures. Mid-January, W took down the xmas decorations and took out all the photos that were on the mantle before xmas, but she just left them in a pile.

My impulse is to put them back up... We still live together and we're still married. But I don't want to start a fight or make her feel uncomfortable. I should also mention that there are 3 wedding photos above our bed that she has not taken down.

Should I put them back up? Should I put them away? Should I leave them where they are? Should I talk to her about it?

[doodler]

Chris73,

Forget about the pictures and use the brain cycles on planning your next outrageously cool GAL activity.

[Ginger1]

Chris73,

Forget about the pictures and use the brain cycles on planning your next outrageously cool GAL activity.

Yup. This is not worth the brain power.

[MoveFrwd]

Chris73,

Forget about the pictures and use the brain cycles on planning your next outrageously cool GAL activity.

Yup. This is not worth the brain power.

If they are sitting in a pile next to the mantel, then do what you want with them. Put them up or put them away doesnt make a ton of difference. Me? Id probably put them up....Or print off new pictures and put THOSE up.

[PacLove]

I actually took mine down after Thanksgiving and they went into a drawer, off course she's moved out so my sich is slightly different. Don't spend cycles on if she took them down - let her decide when to put them back up

[Chris73]

Thanks all. I'm going to leave them where they are and let her decide. I think it would be seen as manipulative if I put them up while she's away.

I'm now moving on to planning my Friday night in the city!