Sink or Swim

[Bdog37]

Jeep, So sorry to hear that brother.

I think we all know where you are coming from. The hatred projected towards you seems all too familiar for most of us. I have been told several times that it's not about me, but its about her. I know this doesn't help, at all, but maybe try and look at it that way. The hate that she shows you is how she feels inside. She has to hate you because she believes you are the source of her unhappiness and by hating you she is able to justify her actions. However, just keep in mind that no matter how she acts towards you that it isn't about you....its all about her, or so I'm told.

Again, I know those words will not bring you any comfort because I am sure a part of you still sees her as the woman you once knew and loved. This is what is so troubling to many of us. We wonder how our "ghost" don't linger in their minds and how they are able to become this new person and forget their past with us so easily. Like we never existed. Its so hard to come to the realization that the person you once loved is now just another stranger. Hang in there my friend. One day, when you least expect it, someone will come along and give you everything you deserve.

Divorce lingers forever. It is like a disease that you transmit to your children and grandchildren. Who the hell would knowingly and willfully ever transmit such a horrific disease to the very people that they love the most?

I have no ideal and it makes me sick to my stomach. Course, if you no longer love them, then its easy to do so I guess.

She's lying to everyone including herself. If you believe in God, just sit back. She can't lie to Him.

^^^^ So true!