I received an email from MIL on Friday. She hopes I'm doing well. (???) The girls were there to visit (because H had them during their break and chose to dump them with his parents instead of taking a few days off to spend with them) and she thought they "seemed down". (???) She also hopes that I don't blame her for supporting him, because he is her son after all and she doesn't know what else to do. (???) She wants me to come down to visit and see her sister's new furniture. (???)
I didn't respond because each time I tried, I just couldn't find a way to do so civilly. Is she drinking the same cool-aid as her son? Again I will say - I don't get it.
Also, H screwed up and used his joint debit card to take his honey to the movies this weekend. The girls and I saw his car in the mall parking lot when we went to buy some clothes for our upcoming FL trip (he and I always park in the same area). I checked the bank account later and sure as anything, he went to the movies. Please H, continue to lie to my face while you use our joint checking account to pay for your dates. Un-freakin-believable.
Me : 42 Him : 43 M : 18, T : 19 D13, D11 4/16 1st BD (ILYB) 11/16 H wants s, moves out of br 1/17 H rents house & moves out 2/17 OW (he denies PA but EA last winter) 5/17 I filed for D 7/17 D Final