my wife can't decide (II)

[WillDo]

very early morning. wanted to jot a few things. want to be happy. maybe with my outburst she thought I want it done. all I want to say was my boundry. she does have OM in her head but during the argument she didn't reveal anything. but yes she is lying.

This Friday and weekend we were more together. Around the kids but she was less resistant to have me involved. Fri were all at the dentist and went to have pizza. Sat there was a birthday. Did 2 hrs shopping together then I took the girls to the birthday. Sun they ran and I went to get some stuff. Girls donut and a sesame bar for W. They enjoyed it. Again Sun she wanted to drop things to her workplace. She said they could drive. I said Inwould take them. I did and we had coffee and desert. Came back daily stuff and slept. She wants to cycle on Sun so will help on that next week. I love my family. W now sleeps somehwere else but when she was with me she did speak to me but didnt want me near her. Her interaction with OM might have increased and did that on Fri. I don't know. Inacn't be No More Mr Nice Guy. My attitude is not right. It pushes her away. I did send an apology to her during the week.

V, Sandi2 I just can"t. Yes I have seen examples where setting boundries works. Mine was a build up of events. As it says on chp 12. Think about patience. Multiply a million. Waiting in limbo again.