Hiya Luke. I dont come here anymore for a lot of reasons, but, was drawn here tonight for some reason...I think it was you.
It is perfectly normal to have that small part of you wonder...what if. This was a woman you loved a great deal, the mother of your child. And it isnt as if you saw any of this coming. I dont care how far down the road you are...it still just baffles you from time to time.
Now really is the time to get back into that business mindset and put the emotional part aside as much as you can for now.
This is another step on your journey. It is going to be a bit bumpy for you. After all, as much as you have moved forward, this is the legal end of your marriage and that's a sad thing no matter where you are at.
I know you will continue to handle this in your wonderful way and will be there for you son. He is still watching you as you set the tone for this part.
I think of you often, my friend. None of us asked for this, and it is so hard, but man, have you grown. This was a journey you were meant to go on.