Chris73 your thread is inspiring. Today. Ok there will be ups and downs. She should have been more open. Did she say who she is going with? My wife palyed tricks on me. I had seen concert tickets in her bag. On the day of the concert she called and said a friends husband couldn't make it and that she was going to the concert. As sandi2 says when WW has OM n her head she is not really engaging. But I feel like you you need to focus on the friendship with W and more importantly relationship with your offspring. I feel very down as she now sleeps in the spare room. Just took maybe 1 minute.
I recalled other thing. She had her nose done. I bet she was sending pictures to OM. When the doctor came and she had to hand in the phone she paniced. But hey I don't look at it anymore.
What I am trying to say is that there could be lots going on in the background. We are doing what we can.
Read shodan. Man the thread was interesting. We would wait and wonder. It ended okish but at one point as we were waiting for reconcilation he said the D papers were prepared!
So as Michele says keep the course.
Me: 43, W: 43 M: 16, T: 18 D - 7, D - 7 ILUB: 26 August 2014 Still living together