So today is H birthday. I don't think I will send him a text or email. I did send him a birthday card from the dogs
Nothing much going on here. I still have not heard back from H after I sent him a text on Tuesday. I just wish he would have never called me because all it did was upset me. Is that what he was trying to do? Why would he say that he really wanted to speak to me and when I try to reach out to him NOTHING. I just don't understand it?
I have since learned that he has been spending time with a woman who is going through a divorce. She is a bit older then H and has 2 kids in their 20s. I do know that long ago this woman's husband cheated on her and she stayed with him. Not sure the circumstances now why they are getting divorced. H has always reached out to women when he needs support. When I kicked him out of the house he had several women that he was "talking to" about out situation. I used to tell him that's what got us in this predicament in the first place....him talking to other women about us instead of him talking to me.
peacetoday.....I agree with you about them not having the courage to do what it takes. They really don't know how much that would mean to us.
As far as H and family. He is originally from England (but lives in the states) so all of his family are still living there. His parents visit frequently (almost to a fault)