I doubt I am the one he compare her with. My name and the kids might have been brought up a lot though. We had an awful couple of week and he was aware of it all.
I know OW is not treated well. He constantly put her down in front of the kids. Shaming her, belittle her. This one is OW4 as a living in but is also OW8 to MY awareness. There might be more.
The projection is still very present. Ex-H got into a feud with Son, not long ago. Again, I played the referee. I listened to both side and I shared my concerns. In the mist of the argument, Son brought up the " Yeah, I know, WE ARE NOT GOOD ENOUGH! All of us are never GOOD ENOUGH!! NOT ONCE have I heard you say you were proud of me, NOT ONCE!!" Ex-H' s last convo with me was: " I talked to him but it did not go to well." I know Son' s comment got straight into Ex-H' s soul of guilt and shame. It definitely hit hard..
This morning, I asked D2 if she checked on her father to see if he is ok. She said he invited them to go to Kamiskotia ( Ski Resourt) for the day. OW is back already.. I doubt the kids will go.
