my wife can't decide (II)

[WillDo]

Vanilla you are so considerate. Depression was diagnosed. Spent 2/3 years with therapy for Cognitive Behavioural Therapy. You see for you identifying the thinking pattern is easier. I struggle. I have to say I have feel ill like not getting out of bed style for almost 9 years. At the beginning of my stitch, my wife was saying she wouldn't take it if I did fall ill. My therapist which I visited at that point said turn it into anger.

I will your words over and over again. I don't want to be defensive.