When they're in such a deep fog and completely rewrite history and say they never felt the way they seemed to feel, how would you ever believe them if they snap out of it and say they didn't mean those things?
How do you trust that they're being genuine then and not just reverting back to "putting up" with things because their affair ended?
This hasn't happened for me, but I'm just thinking how I'd always be in doubt on if she was happy or just pretending and I'd just be getting set up for another BD.
