my wife can't decide (II)

[WillDo]

I have read some old stiches and don't see success at the end.

Please let me know some.

Sandi's point of Nice Guy sendrom is a strong theory. Even a few days back again my wife said I'm a nice person. But Nice is not what the women wants fo respect. Though that goes against Gottman's theories.

All in all we read what we want and it is an awkward situation.

She is distant from me now. But was I really pieceing or I was putting effort and she was not interested. We did have nice moments recently but on Friday she still turned around and said we are just co existing. Ok here I feel 180 works. Pleading doesnt work. Strangely when I tried fo be happy and acted as if all was ok she just that I was abnormal. She started the argument and when she heard my complaints including OM she just got up and left.

Her dad left and never came back. Doesnt even call his daugther. Maybe that's what she really wants. Go back to family. She even sent a picture of her and OM to her mother!