Originally Posted By: LITB

I want to post what sandi2 posted to KevinIn. It is pure gold. She is spot on. I lived it.

Thanks, LITB. I went and found the post that Sandi made, so that I could read the context. The post: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2732568#Post2732568

M: 33, W: 30 @BD
M 7, T 10
BD: Early Dec
W left: Late Dec
W got stuff: Late Jan
W sent S papers: Mid Feb
OM cnfrmd: Late Feb

Pain can yield tremendous growth OR everlasting sadness and bitterness.