The other day I was driving and as I rounded a corner, there was the place I stayed at on the 1 year anniversary of BD. And guess what? I had such nice memories of it! As I drove along I realized that although I was so sad on BD day itself, now, I remember the general calm of that place and I associate it with BD.
Special thanks to Ellie and Job who told me to go.
Funny, I still have fond memories too of the hotel where I escaped for a weekend when my ex was in the middle of his crisis. The staff were so sweet to me when I burst into tears at the reception desk and blurted out that my husband was cheating on me. And even though all I did was eat alone in the restaurant and read by the pool, it was such a nice calm time and the start of me rediscovering myself.
