A GPS would be a nice present idea for your H. Before dismissing the idea, think about it. An undeserved nice gift would be something new/different. If you do decide to, give it to him in a non confrontational way and don't criticise his sence of directions.

When depressed the brain is easily overwhelmed and just cannot cope with simple daily stuff. Being stressed can have the same effect. It cannot be fin to not be able to find his sons sports ground or other places. It is probably overwhelming.

I know it [censored] for you too. It cannot be easy. I admire you being able to support such incidents without adding negativity and criticism into the mix. Fair dues to you.

Best wishes


R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together