I wonder why we men don't take our wives seriously when they complain? And why wives don't understand how we never got it, that they were that unhappy? Then some other guy comes in and swoops her up while the relationship is in a slump. It's a messed up dynamic. You would think men and women would be able to understand each other better than that. We are supposed to join together and raise families. We ought to have some sort of innate understanding of how each other work. But instead, we are like two people from different worlds trying to understand each other.


M: 33, W: 30 @BD
M 7, T 10
BD: Early Dec
W left: Late Dec
W got stuff: Late Jan
W sent S papers: Mid Feb
OM cnfrmd: Late Feb

Pain can yield tremendous growth OR everlasting sadness and bitterness.