Thank you LITB.

For all intents, the divorce is already done...it's all been signed. Custody, all...that can't be changed. Just shoring up some financial she's been balking at. I could have gotten full primary and was originally, but then I thought of the kids. After she retires and moves back, our custody will change a little...just because the kids love and believe in her. There are stipulations put in, but I feel that in her own way she loves them, too. I won't ever deny them their mom because of us - even as much as it hurts me to not have them in the house. However, things will change quick if she reverts and doesn't act in their best interest...to include parental alienation.

You know something, I love having my kids with me so much I can't even describe it. They are my rock, too.


There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.