Irish, I'm so happy to read the good news about your D! I hope it will be getting better for her in terms of dealing with anxiety and stress.
I agree with others, there is definitely something going on with your xw. She is all over the place... contradicting herself... I think she might be coming to a realization that blaming you for her problems and feeling like a victim is not going to get her anywhere. She has to grow up and take the responsibility for her, her actions, her happiness, etc. ... And... she has to find the way to repair her relationship with the girls.
Irish, I can't imagine receiving the texts and e-mails like that from your MLCer on a regular basis. You are handling it pretty well!
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state