Originally Posted By: PacLove
Chris,

not sure if you came across this exert from MWD's website - but thought it very interesting as it may relate to your Sich... I definitely feel my W and I are moving towards the friend zone but with OM out of the picture I hope we can someday move beyond that:

http://divorcebusting.com/a_while_spouse_decides.htm



PacLove--that is awesome and inspiring but what many on the boards would call being a doormat or enabling cake eating. What do you think?


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving