not sure if you came across this exert from MWD's website - but thought it very interesting as it may relate to your Sich... I definitely feel my W and I are moving towards the friend zone but with OM out of the picture I hope we can someday move beyond that:
PacLove--that is awesome and inspiring but what many on the boards would call being a doormat or enabling cake eating. What do you think?
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving