I don't post much, but I have been following your thread. My sitch went down a lot like yours and I must have had that EXACT conversation 5-6 times over the course of the first 6 months after BD. I will tell you that I also felt that "something" was moving forward because I'd finally get some validation from my XW. I will also tell you this sense of validation is extremely fleeting. Lastly, I will say that shortly after these conversations, my XW would so something that would damage our relationship even further...it was like clockwork, every...single...time. Usually took about a week.
How about 12 hours? She texted me this morning and basically said she felt bad about hurting me but no remorse and that she's "made peace with it". That the order of the events wasn't ideal but I'd have been hurt even if she had just left. She said she catered to everything I wanted (not true) so she was unhappy. She said we weren't compatible because I didn't want to do the things she wanted to do. She only listed traveling. I stopped responding.
