I just disagreed with it not being necessary to move forward in ANY TYPE of relationship with a person that has comitted an affair. It IS absolutely necessary in this regard; without it there is no chance.
I also 100% agree with this. Until she has remourse, her and i will never be back together.
Im intrigued by your comment about childhood issues, and also believe she'll continue having affairs, etc. until she gets her own mind straight.
M:39 W:36 - D1:2 D2:6 11/19/16 BD1: ILYBNILWY, EA/PA Dec/Jan: MC, pursuing, not DBing 1/11/17 BD2: W wants 1 month break 2/1/17: Divorce Remedy. Start DBing 2/17/17 BD3: W - separation to start D process