Originally Posted By: KevinIn
I 100% agree with jeep.

My wife has no remourse and also continues her affair. It hurts and we LBSs should use that as reason to move forward and detach. You can do it!


Firstly, I am so sorry that you are having to deal with and witness the complete and blatant lack of remorse ro conscience by your wife. It is an extremely difficult thing to deal with. Secondly, I do agree with using the lack of remorse as a "tailwind" to push healthy detachment. I just disagreed with it not being necessary to move forward in ANY TYPE of relationship with a person that has comitted an affair. It IS absolutely necessary in this regard; without it there is no chance.