I 100% agree with jeep.

My wife has no remourse and also continues her affair. It hurts and we LBSs should use that as reason to move forward and detach. You can do it!

M:39 W:36 - D1:2 D2:6
11/19/16 BD1: ILYBNILWY, EA/PA
Dec/Jan: MC, pursuing, not DBing
1/11/17 BD2: W wants 1 month break
2/1/17: Divorce Remedy. Start DBing
2/17/17 BD3: W - separation to start D process