Well, we had another session today and I went in with a much more open and understanding mindset. It definitely changed the tone of the session. I made it clear that I have not seen any remorse or even an admission of wrong doing on her part and that was causing me to not be able to open myself up at all emotionally to her. She replied "I have no remorse, I am not sorry." I believe these words were all that was necessary for the counselor and myself to see that this can't move in a forward direction. The counselor even went as far as to say "Lack of remorse isn't typically a sticking point, remorse is usually obvious in these situations". I did ask if she had contact with OM and she said she did text him last night, so I was grateful she admitted it but upset that she broke the agreement. This on top of the no remorse thing makes it EXTREMELY difficult to know what direction I should be going.
I am really at a loss now. I truly don't feel like I can or should move forward with her now. Without genuine remorse, she isn't capable of doing the intraspection necessary to determine why she allowed herself to have an A.
