WAW had an affair - hurt and confused

[MJTT]

Brizz I think you are pursuing her with these talks. You'll find that once you start to try to change their mind by logic and reason she will no longer feel safe enough to open up to you. I also have a very analytical mind and I caught myself doing the same thing in my sitch. I always thought that if only I could reason with them they would understand how wrong they are when in reality they have to come to that conclusion on their own. Let her start the R talks. Just be patient and she will initiate those "talks" when she's ready.