Originally Posted By: KevinIn
Then it happened last Sunday, when I threw her for a loop by supporting her decision to move out, see a mediator, and start the separation process. It was a DB 180 technique suggested by my DB coach, and it worked. Since then, she has been somewhat friendly to me.


Kevin -
I dont think she has softened. My guess is that she can see the proverbial light at the end of the tunnel. Or shes being friendly in order to better get what she wants.

I would highly recommend you reset your focus back on you. Continue to consider how to best apply your 180s to meet your goals.