The exit affair.. or om..just currious on the odds.. She admitted little if no responsibility for the ending of M , basically said I don't feel the same for you as I once did. Attempted no work on herself which was evident in the short mc sessions we had. There has been no lag between relationships and if anything there was overlap.
Why do you call it the exit affair? Just curious.
I would be willing to bet that she put the death of the marriage on your shoulders, no? Mine did...and also the affair, too. It was all my fault.
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Now most if not all ic/mc and others recommend at least a year or more before entering your next serious relationship .. and just from my limited steps out I can see why.. it's a murky and complicated world... so being a realist and guy who likes to know the why...how can a transition this fast be healthy and lasting?
That time frame seems right, I guess. Each person is different. I'm not ready for a serious one although I will date. The only way I'd change that is if somehow Harley Quinn moved back and all, rather than this long distance talking/visiting once in a while. Who knows. Each at their own pace, my friend. I like going out and micro dating.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
