So she feels bad and knows she made mistakes. Whether "feels bad" is guilt or is remorse, I don't know.
It's noteworthy that she never said she was sorry.
I think you answered your own question.
It's strange to me that you keep wanting to have these M/R talks with her. Honestly, I dont think it is helping your cause, but thats just my opinion. It looks like way too much pursuing on your end; I think if she wants something to change, she can come find you. You shouldnt be asking her 'whats wrong' 7 times.
I would now take this opportunity to go back into your tunnel. There was a large exchange where you planted some seeds. Now its time to let them germinate.
