I have them all but four days a month when it comes down to it. Even when we were married, her job dictated that I take them/get them, etc., ever since they both were born. Sort of primary caregiver, I guess.
I try so hard, man. So hard.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.