Yes, my xh was over the top when it came to being ridiculous. He was fine in telling me what he wanted in the separation papers and when he was presented w/the draft papers (w/all of his "wants") he then blew a gasket and that's when the anger came into play and remained there for a very, very long time. Nothing pleases them when they are like that, especially when you are trying to get paperwork done properly. I got to the point where I just didn't care about him or his feelings after dealing w/separation papers for 2 years...by that time, I was more than happy to have the divorce happen.
Keep up the good work on your running. You are doing a great job!@
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
