2017 - New year - same MLC but I'm moving along

[Irish M]

Hi Vapo, job, bttrfly.
I will butt out. Not my job to read them. I am to protect them from danger. If their mom writes a letter I wont stand in the way. no dumpster diving either.

I've gotten enough messages from her in the last week to last me a year.

Hi RD, thanks for the support.Always good to hear from you.

Hi Peace, no clue why she brought up my friend. I do think 2 of my wives friends hear from her. Also Update her. I don't ask them to not do it or not talk to her. It's there choice. We have an understanding to tell me nothing about her and don't tell me what to do about her.

Hi KML and Job, if that is her reasons for all these messages, That she is losing her plan B. That's nuts. How could they think that. But then again MLC...


Well , after Monday emails that I posted. I figured XW would disappear again after the truth darts and that I said, Go ahead write the girls a letter. No one is stopping her.

She texted me that night at 10:30pm.

I will try to communicate better with you. I am working hard on this. As promised I will write the girls. I want to chose my words wisely. I don't want to upset them. Thank you for giving me that chance to chat with you. I am tired and i just took a pill to help me sleep. Good night.

Tuesday she was quiet. No messages. Felt relaxing. was sure now she would of went silent and she would mail those letters in the coming days or weeks.

Today. It was email crazy. I will summarize the long emails.

Starts out asking about D14 - great start :-)
I update her and she asks many questions as if she didn't read the update. I decide to write in on here email next to her questions. So maybe it will make more sense. I also write in french , her mother tongue.

Her emails says. I'll put it in point form.

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1- I'm seeing an online therapist. he is coaching me through this
2- I need to keep active and busy to fill the void the girls left in my heart
3- I'm surprised I am still alive. it's a miracle.
4- You and the girls need to not live in the past. Get over it. We cant change the past we can only control the future. Yes I agree, but we need to resolve the past not dwell on it. Unsolved issues are like cracks in the foundation. If we don't fix them it will all fall apart.

5- Do you think we can see those therapist you got in the beginning. to Help with the girls. Ask them in your letter. it is up to them if they want to try again. I will tell you that they won't accept any lies from you. that's why it failed the last time.
6- I can apologize all day long. I know what i did is wrong. I hurt this family. If you trust me to show you we can move forward.
7- Your girlfriend is of no concern to me and my boyfriend should have no concern to you. It is still none of your business my relationship with him. I'm glad you don't ask. I don't, I don't really care about him.
8- We can't move forward as a couple if you don't trust me.We are not a couple.
9- You don't want to be friends and it's probably best this way as it wouldn't work for me either.
10- Your insecurities caused all this. You couldn't let it go. [color:#33CCFF]No, you cheating on my created my insecurities and spark some jealousy. We didn't get the help we needed to fix those cracks in our couple.
Leaving the girls has nothing to do with us breaking up.
11- When you are ready to take a look at our future and the future of the girls let me know. I'll be waiting :-)
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simple exchange. weird comments by her about couple and our future.
I'm not going to question it at all. She's all over the map.

Now off to bed, I am exhausted.

take care and huggs to you all.

Irish