my wife can't decide (II)

[WillDo]

So a strange communication method. I continue to write into my diary. She ignores me. 2 nights she has been going to the spare room directly once the Ds are in bed.

Michele feels like an angel. I read the first chapter again and reminded me why I came to this forum. All other ones would call me in a sense a pussy and bully me. Here I have to say only thing I feel how difficult it is to be a no Nice guy. I don't know what is right or wrong. I was keeping up eith things on my side. I was giving her attention and it was working. But now flipped. seeing her photo with OM and her sending to hermother was bad. I was patient until Friday where again she asked me not to touch her that we just co disted for the kids. Back to crisis management. I now have the tools t cope. Back 2.5 years ago I was like a fish out of water. Now I changed became more invovee cared for her and family changed work hours do house chores etc.

Well Michele mentions about changing strategy. Thats what I have to do. And thinking sbout the picture. She had gone quiet because she was filling the gap with the A.