MLC? Maybe you can tell me...

[Bird]

I don't think you have to or should you ask her who she blames...it will all come out eventually. I'm not an expert by any means, but I simply told my kids that I didn't agree with what is going on, but that I loved them, I loved their mother, and God will get us thru this. They know we both love them, but I'm sure in their growing minds there are questions that only can be answered thru time.

SBJ - yes, you're right. I think lots of things will come out eventually. I've been doing much the same as you - I let them know that where I am upset by what's happened and I don't want it nor agree with it, that I love their Dad very much and I love them too. We will continue to pray for strength and for God to carry us along.

I'm not catholic but I think I'm going to use Lent as a time to focus on a daily meditation to strengthen my faith. It's definitely waning and I'm feeling a little jaded these days. I think I will go see The Shack when it opens this weekend.